Start with shared interests
Discuss what you would like to explore and what you would prefer to leave aside. There is no need to choose anything more intense or complex.
Agree on a budget
Allow for the product, any required accessories and delivery. A game or a massage product may be a better match for what you both enjoy.
Compare the details together
Dimensions, noise, controls and care: identify the details that matter to you. Before giving a personal item, check preferences, any sizing and return conditions.
Always refer to the product manufacturer’s instructions for dimensions, compatibility and care.